Not all parents are protective. Anyone can call themself a parent.But being a parent means putting your children’s needs above your own and doing what is right always. Not most of the time not occasionally not when officials are looking but always. Physically emotionally and financially your children come first. That’s what I was brought… Read More All Protective parents need a voice in Family Court but let’s start by cutting the bullshit!
The typical judge, Cafcass officer, or divorce mediator, even if he or she has impressive degrees and licenses, has often had very little training on domestic abuse,an example of this: a commission service staff was once asked if they had domestic abuse and trauma training due to the fact they were accessing a child to… Read More Family Courts enable controlling men to carry on Domestic Abuse at expence of their own children & society
Many moons ago I was a Beauty Therapist and iv never let that inner beauty therapist part of me go. I believe that physical self care is essential for my mental health and well being so Iv always taken care of my skin hair body and nails and enjoy making the most of what iv… Read More Treating yourself to a bit of me time is essential for mental health but how? When you are a busy single mum.
When a mother victim leaves her abuser , batterers often recognize that the most expedient way to continue to hurt his partner is to assert his legal rights to control her access to their children. By gaining control of the children, an abusive male now has a powerful tool which allows him to continue to… Read More Fathers often use Parental Alienation to discredit mothers to continue abuse & control DV by proxy!
When I made the decision to split from my ex partner in 2014 I at that point did not even know or recognise that I was abused. Id been spending a lot of time blaming myself for everything wrong in my life and wandering how a happy go lucky woman had become a shadow of… Read More Why Lundy Bancroft is a man worthy of a pedestal a man that saved my children & I from Domestic Abuse
Im not talking here about genuine #protective #fathers that do not have the means here I’m talking about the #avoiders the #entitled #male #privaliged covert perpetrators of #Domestic #Abuse. The ones that use their child to continue abuse of their ex after #separation as a punishment . The ones that. #Lundy #Bancroft talks of in… Read More When a Father avoids child support that is Financial Abuse. No matter the red herrings he spins!
#Holding #space for someone isn’t easy , in fact it’s an on going test of my character but it’s a better choice for me than turning bitter and twisted and I’m adamant my nature will not become poisened by my past. My ex’s behaiver towards myself and my children cannot be excused but for their… Read More Why I will always HOLD SPACE for my controlling ex! For mine, his and our children’s sake!