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How do we parent?, permissive parenting and authoritative styles do more harm than good we are told,so is a balance of the 2 the way forward?

Our #parenting style affects the future of our children without a doubt. I’m a single mum of two children. I was in an abusive relationship for a decade and I put up with things that I would not even think about tolerating now. There was a reason I ended up with an abusive man, and… Read More How do we parent?, permissive parenting and authoritative styles do more harm than good we are told,so is a balance of the 2 the way forward?

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Mum life, When you send your Child to school with no skirt just tights and no one even notices!

Every Mum will know what its like in the #school run mornings,we have our houses organised like boot camps,  school uniforms are pressed and laid out,the tables are laid with crisp ironed table cloths, a choice of freshly squeezed orange juice and milk jug will be at hand all ready for the mini cereal packets… Read More Mum life, When you send your Child to school with no skirt just tights and no one even notices!

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Why do certain men have to comment negatively when women talk about their experiences, and things ?

Iv had just about enough of certain and I use the word certain as I’m talking about a certain type of man. The type that does not actually care about women or our experiences but always has something negative to say. The type that pop up on our blog comments our twitter and our Facebook… Read More Why do certain men have to comment negatively when women talk about their experiences, and things ?

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Parental alienation advocates that are all one sided are dangerous

Parental Alienation is something I myself want to find out more about because lately it has been popping up in the UK more and more and is been branded about on blogs with extremely one sided biased accounts of it, this is enabling uneducated people and perpetrators of domestic abuse to jump on the bandwagon… Read More Parental alienation advocates that are all one sided are dangerous

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Don’t stay with a Toxic person they love Toxic drama that is the only love of their life period!

      Don’t stay with a Toxic Person Toxic Drama is the love of their Life Period! We often wander why or how we end up in Toxic friendships or relationships and the bottom line is that we do not love ourselves enough to see that we deserve better and that we are worthy… Read More Don’t stay with a Toxic person they love Toxic drama that is the only love of their life period!

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Parental Alienation Syndrome! Is it another way abusive parents can reign coercive control over a genuine protective parent?

I’m writing this because its a subject that runs terror through my veins, every time I hear or see this term used, as I myself am an abused parent and with first hand experience witnessing this type of #abuse I thought it was about time I told my story and see if anyone else feels… Read More Parental Alienation Syndrome! Is it another way abusive parents can reign coercive control over a genuine protective parent?

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Why its so important to remind ourselves the Time is Now when Anxiety strikes us!

But there are also lots of other important reasons we need to ground ourselves and why is it so important to remind ourselves that the #time is #now. I started suffering from panic attacks about a year ago, they were triggered by the on going financial, coercive domestic #abuse that my ex was reining down on… Read More Why its so important to remind ourselves the Time is Now when Anxiety strikes us!

What is Coercive Abuse?

I believe Coercive control is a deliberate poisoning of someone’s very soul a cruel attack on ones mental health a vile form of abuse often hidden and un punished

#Coercive #control is a term developed by #Evan #Stark to help us to understand #domestic #abuse as more than a ‘fight’. It is a pattern of behaviour which seeks to take away the victims liberty of freedom, to strip away their sense of self. It is not just a persons bodily integrity which is violated… Read More I believe Coercive control is a deliberate poisoning of someone’s very soul a cruel attack on ones mental health a vile form of abuse often hidden and un punished

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Leggings Love them or Loathe and why I’m not ashamed to say I f**king Love them!

Leggings are a staple item found in every mum’s wardrobe in fact every ones wardrobe! But because my blog is mainly aimed at mum’s I will be referring to mum’s a lot. Any mum who “says” she hates leggings isn’t alone because I feel the need to “say” I hate leggings, but the truth is… Read More Leggings Love them or Loathe and why I’m not ashamed to say I f**king Love them!