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Family Courts enable controlling men to carry on Domestic Abuse at expence of their own children & society

The typical judge, Cafcass officer, or divorce mediator, even if he or she has impressive degrees and licenses, has often had very little training on domestic abuse,an example of this: a commission service staff was once asked if they had domestic abuse and trauma training due to the fact they were accessing a child to… Read More Family Courts enable controlling men to carry on Domestic Abuse at expence of their own children & society

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How and Why I Celebrate National Wine Week as a Semi Soba/Teetotaler

Iv got to be honest I used to love a drink, but nowadays I’m more of a pukka tea kind of girl. I didn’t choose to stop drinking. I found that going through Domestic Abuse which has directly caused me to develop generalised anxiety having a couple of glasses of my favourite wine makes it… Read More How and Why I Celebrate National Wine Week as a Semi Soba/Teetotaler

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Treating yourself to a bit of me time is essential for mental health but how? When you are a busy single mum.

Many moons ago I was a Beauty Therapist and iv never let that inner beauty therapist part of me go. I believe that physical self care is essential for my mental health and well being so Iv always taken care of my skin hair body and nails and enjoy making the most of what iv… Read More Treating yourself to a bit of me time is essential for mental health but how? When you are a busy single mum.

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Fathers often use Parental Alienation to discredit mothers to continue abuse & control DV by proxy!

When a mother victim leaves her abuser , batterers often recognize that the most expedient way to continue to hurt his partner is to assert his legal rights to control her access to their children. By gaining control of the children, an abusive male now has a powerful tool which allows him to continue to… Read More Fathers often use Parental Alienation to discredit mothers to continue abuse & control DV by proxy!

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Why Lundy Bancroft is a man worthy of a pedestal a man that saved my children & I from Domestic Abuse

When I made the decision to split from my ex partner in 2014 I at that point did not even know or recognise that I was abused. Id been spending a lot of time blaming myself for everything wrong in my life and wandering how a happy go lucky woman had become a shadow of… Read More Why Lundy Bancroft is a man worthy of a pedestal a man that saved my children & I from Domestic Abuse

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Pineapple lovers will just love this must have gadget! Roll on Summer Time!

My daughter loves #pineapple but I seriously struggle to cut it open to the point Iv often hacked into it making a complete mess. That was until I came across this pineapple #cutter. It’s a brilliant #gadget and so easy to use. It creates a tunnel in the middle where the pineapple is ,leaving the… Read More Pineapple lovers will just love this must have gadget! Roll on Summer Time!

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When a Father avoids child support that is Financial Abuse. No matter the red herrings he spins!

Im not talking here about genuine #protective #fathers that do not have the means here I’m talking about the #avoiders the #entitled #male #privaliged covert perpetrators of #Domestic #Abuse. The ones that use their child to continue abuse of their ex after #separation as a punishment . The ones that. #Lundy #Bancroft talks of in… Read More When a Father avoids child support that is Financial Abuse. No matter the red herrings he spins!

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Fathers RIGHTS groups would do good to remember it’s responsibilities they have NOT RIGHTS & children are not property and something to win!

There I said it, now que the verbal and #emotional #abuse that will come at me from both sides in the comments . From the #misogynistic women which I my self once misguided probably was and the #angry #controlling #men. Who both don’t listen to anyone but the mirror ! Saying a statement like this… Read More Fathers RIGHTS groups would do good to remember it’s responsibilities they have NOT RIGHTS & children are not property and something to win!

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My 6 year old describes her natural mixed race hair as a Fluffy Chocolate Cloud that she loves!

My #beautiful baby girl has the most #amazing #hair and Iv wanted her to feel that way herself about it from the day she was born, so after hearing her say ” My Hair is Like a Big #Fluffy #Brown #Cloud and I love It” after looking in the mirror the other morning I was… Read More My 6 year old describes her natural mixed race hair as a Fluffy Chocolate Cloud that she loves!

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Mindful steps to help single parents deal with a counter parenting ex partners

As if being a #single parent isn’t a hard enough job as it is, no matter what the rewards seeing our beautiful children thrive and become the amazing individuals that they are its no secret that single parenthood is at times lonely exhausting mentally, physically and financially draining and thats when there is a coparent… Read More Mindful steps to help single parents deal with a counter parenting ex partners